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 I am a Cancer 07/10/99

Strengths: Tenacious, highly imaginative, loyal, emotional, sympathetic, persuasive

Weaknesses: Moody, pessimistic, suspicious, manipulative, insecure

Cancer likes: Art, home-based hobbies, relaxing near or in water, helping loved ones, a good meal with friends

Cancer dislikes: Strangers, any criticism of Mom, revealing of personal life
 "My dog"

????-How to remember names-????

1. Commit. Begin by making a commitment — a conscious decision — to remember people's names. ...

1. Concentrate. You can only remember what you observe in the first place. ...

1. Repeat. Repetition helps engrave the name in your memory. ...

1. Associate.

How to Win Friends and Influence people

Six Ways to Make People Like You

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

   1) "Do this and you will be welcome anywhere

2)"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years  by trying to get other people interested in you." 

3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."  

To follow this rule it's kind of hard for me to do I have social Anxiety. So I like to avoid people a lot cause I get nervous a lot thinking thinking that I will do something dumb. Yet there times when I do talk to people and it s not bad and I get to know more people. I like meeting new people ,but I get awkward. 

Rule 2: Smile
1) "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You ,ale me happy. I am glad to see you.'
2) "You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
3) " It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."

Sometimes smiling is a good thing. It shows that you are happy with what you doing. If someone comes up to you and you have an annoyed face. People will judge you for that thinking that you are not a good person. So they will tell other and they will want to stay away from you. After that you wont be able to make friends that easily. This why no matter the situation you should smile, it will help you to stay as a positive person. Allow you to also make friends.


Rule:3 Remember Names
1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language." 
2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."


Remembering names can be easy yet others it can be hard. Like for me I am not good at remembering names. I feel terrible after forgetting people's names when they already know mine. Since I do that remembering names should be important to help build connections. Connection that can help you when you needs help. Remembering names can be fairly easy to do if you really want to remember them.







Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. 
1) "If you aspire to be ab good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
2) "Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems.

Its not really good or nice to talk about yourself people can get bored and lose interest. Same thing with us. If the person constantly and goes on and on and on about themselves then you'll lose interest to. Its good to talk about a common topic. You learn each others interest and dislikes. With the more things I common the closer you can get to become friends. Or even be categorized as 'person I talk to". Which doesn't really make you friends but acquaintances. Its not just talking though you have to make sure to listen to the person or your put on the spot when they ask "what did I say" and make you look like your rude. So don't be that rude person.



Rule 5: Talk in Terms of the other man's interest.
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."

If were talking about a actual man, not interested. Yet if its about others than yeah I think that we should talk about peoples things that they treasure more. To help connect with them, That is what I think is a good way to communicate.





Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely. 
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." ( John Dewey )"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

We all want to feel important we don't want to leave this world without anyone remembering. But we should still appreciate people who will. To appreciate things people can do that help us. We all can take it for granted and when we really do need it we can't. The way things are happening for us they won't be good. Will be hard to survive. Yet at times all we can really do is have someone for us to be there with us when we need it. That's how you know you have a good person with you. A great connection and friend we all need.











 With these six steps they really can help a person connect with others and be social. At times it can be hard for other people to do these steps. Like having social anxiety, it makes it hard for them to talk to others. Sometimes we feel that others judge us and don't wanna talk to them ,but we have to. If not it ca ruin how we would function in our lives. We need people to like us and make connections to grow as a person. They can help us in times of need and doing the same for them.

Keck School of Medicine of USC

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